Michael Deland Cox, age 70, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 28, 2020, at Northeast Georgia Medical Center in Gainesville, Georgia. He was born September 10, 1949 in Osceola, Arkansas to L.T. Cox and Mildred Dees Cox.
He was preceded in death by his parents and younger brother Alan Dale Cox. He is survived by his daughters, son in laws, and grandchildren: Selina Jeannine and Zeb Gilbert, Charlotte and Zeb Jr; Shelby Dee and Charles Finch, Thomas and Lilliana; Sarah Haven and Stevie Jackson, Avery and Isaiah.
He is also survived by the mother of his daughters Jean P Cox, his nieces, and other family in Arkansas and Georgia.
Michael loved his lord and savior Jesus Christ and wanted everyone to be a part of God’s kingdom. He proudly served as a medical corpsman with the US Navy and in the Merchant Marines. He cherished his roots in Arkansas and his children in Georgia. He never met a stranger and would always welcome anyone with a smile. A smile that will be missed by many.
A private family memorial will be held in Georgia and Arkansas at later dates.
The family would like to thank Brookside Assisted Living, Commerce Ga, and Northeast Georgia Medical Center for their care and compassion.
The Staff of Central Cremation Services is honored to support the Cox family with End of Life Services.
In lieu of flowers, we ask that you donate to your local VA or Church in his honor.
Mike's passing leaves a void in this world, and in the world of his family. I remember Mike visiting Georgia to see his girls when we were growing up. Selina, Shelby, and Sarah were like siblings to me, and while Mike was separated by distance, anyone who met him would, without question, know how much love and pride Mike had for his girls.
Mike loved to talk. I think this is because he genuinely loved people and, while I was probably a teenager the last time I remember seeing him (I think this was at Shelby's graduation from UGA), his words stand out to me as an example of someone who held a genuine interest in others. Mike instantly connected with people he met because he genuinely cared about what they had to say and who they were as a person. Mike's ability to connect with others was a gift, and he used that gift to share his love for Jesus with anyone he met.
I know Selina, Shelby and Sarah cherish the time they spent in Arkansas. I never went to Arkansas, but I do remember stories about the farm, Grandma and Grandpa Cox and Uncle Dale, and, while I haven't been there, I imagine it feels like home. The closest I ever got to going to Arkansas was going on one summer road trip with Jean to meet Mike to pick you girls up and surprise you because we didn't tell you that I was coming. I remember Jean telling me that I should sleep because I wasn't going to miss anything as we were driving down the interstate through Tennessee.
Memories and stories have a way of comforting us in difficult times. Selina, Shelby, and Sarah, I wish I could help you through this incredibly difficult time. I wish we could be with you, shower you with love and stories, give you a hug. While Mike's health had declined over the last few years, and the stroke took many things away from him, none of us were prepared to say goodbye to Mike. Let's remember the happy times together, remember Mike's laughter, passion, and energy and leave the sadness behind (because that's what Mike would want us to do).
I love you all very much. -Cody
Jean, Shelby, Sarah & Selina - You all were always his girls. He always talked about his girls and how much he loved you. Your dad was such a Godly man and cared about everyone. He always asked about every family member when he called. He also always wanted to be a help - he would call Junior and give him advice about vitamins and herbs (that Jr. still takes today).
We have so many great memories of Mike. We were thinking today that he and Junior put up Lorra's first swingset together. He would stay with us when he came to visit sometimes. We are thankful to have those memories - we love y'all and are praying for you. Love, Jr. and Mary
Selina, Shelby, Sarah and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. We know he loved you all with all his heart. We have fond memories of your dad. I remember the time I went with him and your mom to visit Grandma and Grandpa Cox in Arkansas. It was winter time and soooo cold. All the guys went duck hunting and we're do proud that they brought home a duck and goose for New Year's Dinner. Grandma Cox cooked both of them for dinner. That was the first and last time I ate cooked goose. He loved to talk about his three beautiful and talented daughters, his time in the Navy and life aboard the Navy ships, the Arkansas Razorbacks and football, and his relationship with God and Jesus Christ. You can find comfort in knowing he was saved and is now singing and praising God in heaven. Your dad has just moved from his earthly home to his heavenly home. Please try to find comfort in that. We love you bunches! Judy and Edward
Selina, Shelby and Sarah, my heart breaks for you all. I do know that Mike loved each of you more than we will ever realize and I know that he meant the world to each of you. Memories past always forth the time you all spent in Arkansas with your dad and his family on the farm. I'll always remember Mike's voice, it was unique to him and his funny caring character will surely be something that you all will continue to cherrish. Hold the memories of your father close by to your heart and know that our family continues to hold each of you in our thoughts and prayers in the days, weeks and months ahead.
Love you guys,
Chris - Cuitapher
Selina, Shelby & Sarah, We've you all on our hearts and minds in this hard time. You all and your families were his pride and joy - he loved you all so much. He always showed how much he cared for family - we've had many a phone call from Uncle Mike over the years and knew he had genuine love and concern for us. His passing has made me think of good memories we all had together, and I'm thankful for those and hope you all are finding some comfort with those too. We love you all and will be praying for you. Love, Lorra, Terrell, Gavin & Kellan
Jean, I have just learned of Mike's passing. I know this is a difficult time for you and the family. If I can help in any way, let me know. Gary 1-870-425-4834
Keeping you all in our prayers. Love The Vickery family and the Ward family
"To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven;"(Eccl 3:1) Though this season is a sad and difficult one, remember Dad would want you to laugh and rejoice with memories spent in Arkansas and Georgia. He is with his Lord and his memory is clear! I am so proud of each of you for the women and mothers you have become. You gave your Dad honor while here on earth and as he would say, "GOD BLESS YOU!". Love you always, Mom.