Obituary For Mary Louise Gardei

Mary Louise Gardei, 95, of West Point, passed away on Sunday, August 9th, at her home in West Point, GA. A memorial service will held at West Point First United Methodist Church on Thursday, August 13th, at 2:00 pm EDT with Reverend Erik Mays officiating.

From 3:00 PM to 5:30pm EDT, the family will be at the Gardei home to receive extended family and friends. (Please follow mask and social distancing guidelines.)

Mrs. Gardei is survived by her daughter, Patti Scalf of Valley, Alabama, two grandchildren, Trace (Breen) Scalf of Valley, Alabama and Shea (Scott) McNeilly of Matthews, North Carolina, sister, Ruth Lee of Decatur, Georgia, ten great grandchildren, and a number of nieces and nephews and her dedicated friend, Daisy Gilliam.

Born July 20, 1925, in Rockmills, Alabama, Mrs. Gardei was the daughter of the late James W. Ray and Mary Borders Ray. She is preceded in death by two brothers, James W. Ray, Jr. and Edward Ray, and her sister, Janie Mitchum. Mrs. Gardei was a faithful and active member of West Point United Methodist Church until her health declined.

Mrs. Gardei was a homemaker, and was known for her gift of hospitality and having family and friends around her table as often as she was able. There aren’t many friends, family, or church members that have not eaten one of her delicious chocolate pies. She loved family and friends and spending time with them.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to First Methodist Church or Chattahoochee Hospice.

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There are so many wonderful memories of your mother, Patti. The one that always stands out to me is how kind and caring she was to your daddy every day. He came home for lunch and she had the table set, ready, and waiting with the food she'd prepared. They sat cozily across from each other in that little nook. All the food groups were represented, and the finishing touch was a parfait glass containing fresh fruit. I complimented her on her gracious style and meticulous attention to detail when it was only the two of them dining. Her reply was, "He deserves it." Unforgettably appreciative wife and nurturer. She was the best!

- Patricia Jordan

So sorry for your loss! She was such a wonderful and sweet lady!!! Thoughts and Prayers for you and the family.

- Robin Butts

Patti, I am so sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful lady.

- Tom Williams

Patti, I am so sorry for the loss of your precious mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you...

- Kay Pippen

Patti, sorry to hear about your mom.I remember both parents well because my dad, Joe, worked with your dad at the post office. God bless you all.

- Johnny DeLoach

Aunt Lou has been a part of my life for as long as I have memory. You loved us & treated us like family.We have so many happy memories of time spent with my Mom, Louise & their friends. I am sad & we will miss you but we are so happy that you & Papa are together again. Love to Patti & her family.

- Rebecca Cotney

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- Rebecca Cotney